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Newbies - advice for new members and first time swinging couples at.. |
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I am assuming that you have both talked to each other about swapping partners [swinging] and found the idea exciting and very erotic. I will also assume that you have both enjoyed the thought of swinging for a while and have now decided to take the next big step of meeting others.
It is natural to feel nervous and anxious prior to any meeting or club visit plus you may well be wondering if you are both "normal" to be interested in swinging as society and most religions frown on such things. I had an interesting chat recently with a first time couple who approached me at the end of the evening and told me that before they thought of attending our club they had felt really alone with their interest in swinging until they arrived at The Office and found themselves in a club full of other couples who all enjoyed the same thing!!
We welcome all first time swinging couples as do our members who also remember what it was like to attend their first club, with this in mind all our members will try to make you feel comfortable and will often relate stories of how nervous they felt first time and then how great it was to leave at the end of the night with a big smile firmly attached to their faces.
Remember there will be no pressure on you both to do anything. A lot of first time couples have had a great time just sat in our social areas whilst talking with other couples. Its not unusual for a first time couple to attend The Office several times before they feel confident enough to venture into our play areas.
Just take things at your own pace. Should you ever need any advice or help please don't hesitate to either call me or have a chat in person. Finally I will quote a man who had a gift for putting into words what most of us all feel yet try to ignore...... "The only way to deal with a temptation is to yield to it..." Oscar Wilde
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